THE HAPPINESS OF
MARTHA AND MARY
From a sermon by St Aelred of Rievaulx
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Jesus entered a certain fortress, and a certain woman named Martha
received him into her house. And she had a sister named Mary. You have heard
in the Gospel about the great happiness of the two women. Truly, brothers, great
was the happiness of Martha, who welcomed such a guest, who waited upon
him, who was completely engaged with serving him. Great was the happiness of
Mary, who recognized the excellence of her guest, who listened to his wisdom
and tasted his sweetness…
If therefore…our soul according to what we have said, becomes a fortress,
it is fitting that two women live in it: one who sits at the feet of Jesus and listens
to his words, the other who waits upon Jesus and feeds him. Consider this: if
Mary were alone in this house, there would be no one to feed the Lord; if Martha
were alone, there would be no one to take delight in the discourses and presence
of the Lord. Therefore…Martha signifies that action by which a person labors
for Christ, and Mary signifies that rest by which a person ceases from bodily
activities and takes delight in the sweetness of God, either through reading,
prayer, or contemplation. Therefore…as long as Christ is poor and goes about
afoot on earth, and is hungry and thirsty, and is tempted, it is necessary that
both of these women dwell in one house, that both of their actions be in one
soul.
As long as you or I or anyone else is on earth, he himself is present in the
world, if we are his members. Whenever those who are his members are hungry,
thirsty, and tempted, then Christ will be hungry, thirsty, and tempted. For this
reason, Christ himself will say on the day of judgment: “Whenever you, did it to
one of the least of my brothers or sisters, you did it to me”. Therefore…in this
miserable and burdensome life, it is necessary that Martha be in our house, that
is, that our soul be busy with bodily activities. As long as we must eat and drink,
then we have to labor. As long as we are tempted by carnal pleasures, it is
necessary for us to tame the flesh by vigils, fasts, and bodily labor. This part is
Martha’s.
Mary also should be in our soul, for she represents activity of spirit. We
should not always give ourselves to bodily exercises but occasionally should rest
and see how delightful, how sweet, is the Lord; we should sit at the feet of Jesus
and listen to his word. In no way ought you to neglect Mary because of Martha,
nor again Martha because of Mary. If you neglect Martha who will feed Jesus? If
you neglect Mary, what will it benefit you that Jesus entered your house, since
you taste nothing of his sweetness?