A FATHER
AND NOT A JUDGE
From a commentary by St John Chrysostom
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All that God looks for from us is the slightest opening, and he forgives a
multitude of sins. Let me tell you a parable that will confirm this.
There were two brothers: they divided their father’s goods between them,
and one stayed home, while the other went away to a foreign country, wasted all
he had been given, and then could not bear the shame of his poverty. Now the
reason I have told you this parable is so that you will understand that even sins
committed after baptism can be forgiven if we face up to them. I do not say this
to encourage indolence but to save you from despair, which harms us worse
than indolence.
The son who went away represents those who fall after baptism. This is
clear from the fact that he is called a son, since no one is called a son unless he is
baptized. Also, he lived in his father’s house and took a share of all his father’s
goods. Before baptism no one receives the father’s goods or enters upon the
inheritance. We can therefore take all this as signifying the state of believers.
Furthermore, the wastrel was a brother of the good man, and no one is a brother
unless he has been born again through the Spirit.
What does he say after falling into the depths of evil? I will return to my
father. The reason the father let him go and did not prevent his departure for a
foreign land was so that he might learn well by experience what good things are
enjoyed by the one who remains at home. But when words would not convince
us God often leaves us to learn from the things that happen to us.
When the profligate returned after going to a foreign country and finding
out by experience what a great sin it is to leave the father’s house, the father did
not remember past injuries but welcomed him with open arms. Why? Because
he was a father and not a judge. And there were dances and festivities and
banquets and the whole house was full of joy and gladness.
Are you asking: “Is this what he gets for his wickedness?” Not for his
wickedness, but for his return home; not for his sin but for repentance’ not for
evil, but for being converted. What is more, when the elder son was angry at this,
the father gently won him over, saying You were always with me, but he was
lost and has been found; he was dead and has come back to life. When someone
who was lost has to be saved”, says the father, “it is not the time for passing
judgment or making minute inquiries, but only for mercy and forgiveness.”