THE PROMISES WHICH
YOUR LIPS HAVE UTTERED
From “The Mirror of Charity” by St Aelred of Rievaulx
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These three elements — stability, conversion of life, and obedience —
constitute the essential character of monastic profession… Blessed Benedict
recommends obedience, which he wants to be neither tardy nor tepid, neither
morose nor grumbling, unwavering in the face of injuries and adversities, and
unflagging even in the face of death…
How then can anyone who does not keep these things keep to his
profession? Someone will say: if someone is proud, stubborn, impatient, and yet
observes all the things mentioned above, must we say that he keeps the Rule of
Saint Benedict? I maintain that if a monk has committed any of these faults
against God’s law, he will not be guilty of transgressing his profession if he
makes amends for them according to the means prescribed by the Rule.
But what if someone looks at the Rule of Saint Benedict as a tool for
pruning away vices more easily and fulfilling the gospel precepts more carefully,
and yet, as could happen, abusing this excellent tool, he neither prunes away his
vices nor acquires virtues by it. Does he not keep the Rule to his peril then, and
still not fulfill Christ’s precepts? Does blessed Benedict not allude to this? We
are going to establish, he says, a school of the Lord’s service, in which we hope
not to institute anything harsh or burdensome…
To beginners, of course, this strictness seems not inconsiderable when
they think about the meager, paltry quantity of food and drink, the roughness of
the clothing, the discomforts of fasts and vigils, the wearing grind of daily work,
and all the other things we find he instituted in the Rule. If anyone does not
agree that the Rule consists of these alone, at least let him admit what cannot be
denied except by stubborn obstinacy: that our profession and Rule consist of
both, that is, of virtues and observances, and let him therefore not refuse to
admit that we necessarily practice both.
If you have charity it is not necessary for you to be forced to fulfill the
promises which your lips have uttered. If you scorn fulfilling the things you
promised by putting your signature to them and calling on God and his saints as
your witnesses, you can be very sure you do not have charity. For do you love
someone you mock? If anyone does other than he has promised, he said, let him
know that he will be condemned by the God whom he mocks.